Archive for April, 2008

Marian Rivera | Dyesebel {pics}

Wednesday, April 30th, 2008

Dyesebel was able to surpass the 38% rating that Marimar got during its pilot telecast. A 44% rating was reported amidst some power interruptions in Metro Manila. Although design used in the “Kingdom” under the sea is a big disappointment, many we’re still enthralled by this new fantaserye. Having Ms. Joyce Bernal as their director, many are expecting that Dyesebel would really be a hit.

Huh, it’s not just ABS vs. GMA now, but Angel Locsin vs. Marian Rivera… they said that Marian would replace Angel as Timex and Mc Donalds endorser, and Marian would be paired with Piolo in a high class Spa endorsement  and again Marian vs. Angel as FHM 100 sexiest lady.. I wonder what will happen to Angel now…

   

 

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Anna Bayle | Tips on How to be a Supermodel

Wednesday, April 30th, 2008

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 Let me copy and paste here a part of Mrs. Anna Bayle’s story on how she made it big in the modeling industry, if only I have the body and face to be a model, :D

In a recent article in the New York Times by Julie Bloom, she reported that models with a background of dance have a substantial advantage over the girls who don’t. She stated that

“a string of in-demand models with serious dance backgrounds literally have a leg up. At the same time, as the pages of this fall’s set of weighty magazines attest, professional dancers are influencing fashion in ways never seen before.”

Miss Bloom gave one of the top models, Coco Rocha, as an example.

During my modeling years, I remember many times when I said to myself, “Thank God for my insistent mother.” For every summer when I was a child, she enrolled me in folk dancing. Yes, I would have preferred ballet……but growing up in a third world country - there was not much choice. I used to resent her choosing my activities for me, like the piano lessons and the art classes. But then again, when I was growing up, parents chose for us not the other way around.

I begrudged these ‘forced’ dance and music lessons, but in them I learned how to count beats in music; alternating between allegro and andante. I was able to determine that there is a high point and a low point in every piece of music. I also learned that any piece of music tells a story and that I am able to use my body to tell that story. Not that I was a critical thinker when I was younger because one just takes the lessons and forgets them, however, because one has the basics of music and dance, one is now wired to pick up those clues when listening to music. I also learned how to perform: I learned how to be comfortable in front of an audience despite my resistance to it.

Up to this day, even way after I retired as a model, I found myself taking numerous dance classes and exploring where my body could take me. I took African dance, Afro-Cuban dance, salsa, ballroom, belly dancing, etc. You name it…I can dance it. Dance gives me an outlet for creativity. In the same way singers use their voices as musical instruments, though I am not a prima ballerina, I use my body as an instrument of creative expression, as well.

Genre, tempo, and downbeat of the music were the biggest clues for me of how I would enter the runway. It was instinctive.

There were multiple times in my career when the musical advantage was blatant. Where other girls just walked down the runway, I danced down the runway, figuratively. There was even a time when designers like Versace would ask the girls to walk against the music. This is done sometimes to give the show a different edge. And even with that, a model can just walk and disregard the music but I found myself walking not to the downbeat but to another rhythm that I could hear from the music. Drummers know what I am talking about. It is a nuance, yes, not consciously observed by the audience, but I am still walking in harmony with the music while other girls walked like they were just walking in the street.

THE SHOWS
It was not always easy to do your own thing. Most of the time, we are asked to walk with other girls especially in ready to wear collections. But there are many times when you are given the opportunity to do as you please. When I was a starving model in Paris, we had to do a huge show in a chateau in Versailles somewhere, for Kenzo. The girls were transported to the place on a very comfortable bus in the morning. We had so much time to rehearse and prepare that by the time the guests arrived from Paris we were all ready and made-up. We were backstage drinking champagne. A big group of models formed a circle and even took turns dancing in the middle while the circle clapped their hands. I remember Gloria Burgess regaling us with her dancing antics. We were just having ‘bored models amuse themselves’ kind of fun.

When the show started, I had to go out with about 11 other girls wearing Balinese inspired dresses. I don’t know what it was. Maybe it was the champagne. Maybe it was because it was a party, really and everyone was just having fun, even the audience. Backstage, even Kenzo was relaxed and giggly. Maybe because I knew instinctively that as a new model in Paris, I had to make a move sometime to get noticed. This was a good place as any for we were out of the ‘tents’. (collection time shows) It was not a press show but a show celebrating Kenzo. The difficult journalists were not in town; most were French press and the French are usually very open to originality and uniqueness. I don’t know what got into me but I let the music carry me. When I was walking down the runway, I started to pose like a Balinese dancer making all the hand movements from the Balinese dance while walking down the runway.

The thing about doing something good is that some of the girls after me started to copy me and do the same thing. It was not part of the choreography but it became part of it. I am not saying that a model should do unrehearsed things on the runway, especially these days where they expect girls to march in and out of the runway. But sometimes you, as a model, are given a chance to excel where it does not disrupt the flow of things and where your creativity is much appreciated. It is at that time that you should dance.

I remember once during a couture show of Christian Lacroix, I was given a Virgin Mary gown, a gold/silver shift that clung to my body. On top of that, I wore a huge stole of the same material but embroidered and it was placed on top of my head like a virgin’s veil. The music in the background was operatic aria. There is a high point in the music when the tenor belts out a “high C”. I walked down the runway to the music slowly waiting for the music to build up. As the music got faster and more intense, so was my approach of the top of the runway where a model turns and poses to go back. When the tenor hit the note, I was right on the place where I was supposed to be and I dramatically dropped the veil at the same time to go around my arms like a stole. The audience burst out in tremendous applause. It was really a timing thing and I really could not duplicate it in the next 2 shows. During the break before the next show, Lacroix people: the ladies of the atelier and the press agents of Lacroix, came to me and told me their hairs stood up during that passage. In a way, I knew. I knew I hit the high note and it was perfect. I knew that I moved to the music and it carried both the audience and me to a point of climax that the image and the moment will stay in their minds for a long time. I knew that I did a great job and that this house will hire me again for the next season. I also knew that Christian will not hesitate to assign his beautiful gowns to me for I knew how to make his clothes come alive. It was really a moment. And the thing with moments….you have to be ready when it comes. They say that “One should dance like nobody is watching.” In modeling, sometimes you should find that inner dancer in you, pretend nobody is watching and express yourself.

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Marian Rivera | Dyesebel

Tuesday, April 29th, 2008

 

I am not a big fan of Marian Rivera’s acting but I must agree that she has one of the most beautiful faces among our young actresses nowadays.

Many have missed her from her debut starring role in Marimar where she gained so popularity and become one of today’s most sought after star and commecial endorser (I think she ought to thank Angel Locsin :D )

She is now back in the Telebabad of GMA 7 with Ding Dong Dantes as partner in the television remake of Dyesebel.

I believe Dyesebel will capture the hearts of many Filipinos again for they have been obssesed to Marian Rivera and her alluring beauty.

By the way, it would be the first non-contravida role for Jean Garcia who would play as her mother. But we will see if there would be some twist in the character.  And I heard many people from Dagupan were dismayed and dissappointed to her when she didn’t showed up in the parade during the Bangus Festival to promote Dyesebel, her Kapuso station announced her appearance but she was not seen in the parade.

 Let’s just see how Dyesebel would fair since it was most anticipated by many televiewers.

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Lost…

Monday, April 28th, 2008



So many confusion,So many things going on,So many madness to comprehend,Nothing I understand. Countless forms of knowledge trying to give instruction,Countless folks doing efforts for regulation,Countless religion rallying around saying they empathize, Still nothing I understand. Where can I find my way to self-fulfillment, Where can I find help, when all these peoplePretending to offer help are also at their wits end.

Lost… am I the only one?

How To Have A Relationship That Will Last

Sunday, April 27th, 2008

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I would like to share something nice I’ve read by Bo Sanchez… it’s about having a relationship that will last…   Opposites do attract – but will the attraction make a relationship endure to the end?   Partners can differ on tastes—perhaps the woman loves bangus but the man eats only adobo and paksiw. Partners can differ on the best way to spend their weekend—perhaps he likes computers but she likes going out to new places . Partners can differ in personality—perhaps he likes to listen and she likes to talk.   All these differences are fine. They can complement each other. But at the end of the day, it’s the COMMON things that will HELP hold a marriage together.

Especially  

  1. common values

  2. common vision and

  3. common passions

         

 It’s really nice to dream of growing old together with that someone you love.

If you’re married, and you want to strengthen your marriage, then CREATE common values, common vision, and common passions together. Work on them!

 And if you’re not yet married, be sure to find someone who shares with you your values, vision, and passions

LOVE AND LETTING GO

Sunday, April 27th, 2008

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  • But love is not love until it lets go. One who professes love but refuses to let go is not a lover. He is a parasite. Letting go is the ultimate test of love.

How meaningful these words are to me. Two years ago, I left a place where I felt so much happiness and contentment. In that place I enjoyed my independence, I enjoyed living with my friends, I enjoyed living close to the sea and the mountain and most of all I enjoyed living close to someone whom I love so much, my Hunny.   

  • But their mutual letting go did not mean abandonment or betrayal. Their letting go was the ultimate challenge of their love for one another. Jesus had to let go of His apostles for their sake. The apostles must let go of Jesus so He could complete the mission entrusted to Him by the Father. From then on, the love between Jesus and His disciples – you and I included – would have to grow with faith and hope.   

In the same way, I left that place, to live somewhere, coz I felt I have to do it for my Hunny’s sake. I know it would challenge our love for each other. But I know deep in me, that it is the only way that we could grow in faith and hope that someday we will be united again… forever.    

  • Love demands faith and is nourished by hope. Our faith convinces us what our physical reality fails to prove: Jesus is here with us. Our hope sustains us where human expectation falls short: Jesus will come again and take us with Him to paradise. Faith, hope, and love as St. Paul wrote, are the things that last to the end; and the greatest of them is love. But love is not love until it lets go. (Fr. Bobby Titco, Didache, April 19, 2007)  

That’s the way I love someone whom I know God has given to me as a special gift. (Coz actually hiningi ko talaga ang Hunny ko kay God thru prayers.  J )

The Stories of Middle Children (What is Middle Child Syndrome?)

Sunday, April 27th, 2008

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Lorin Joy is a middle child, had older brothers and sister and younger sister and she always got picked on, especially during their younger years. It was them against her, but now that they are older. Lorin Joy is the one they all come to. During the most difficult times when her mother suffered from cancer, she is the one who stood by her the most and gave the care that nothing, even money could compare with.

Same goes with Ricky. He had many stories on how he felt left out because he’s neither the youngest nor the oldest. Sometimes this leads him to feel ignored; he strived hard to support his education, and strived harder to have a good job. Now that his financially stable, instead of feeling resentment for what he had endured, he would happily support the needs of his family, reasoning out that “If it’s the only way to make them smile at me, I would gladly give more to them.”

True stories of two middle children I knew… What is Middle Child Syndrome? How did Middle Child Syndrome affected them?

According to some research:

The middle or second born child or children often have the sense of not belonging. They fight to receive attention from parents and others because they feel many times they are being ignored or dubbed off as being the same as another sibling. Being in the middle, a child can feel insecure. The middle child often lacks drive and looks for direction from the first born child. Sometimes a middle child feels out of place because they are not over achievers and like to go with the flow of things. (click to continue reading)

We might as well say that Middle Child Syndrome, is a by-product of “favoritism”. Personally, in as much as the cases presented above are difficult to avoid in a normal setting of a family, the responsibility would still be on both parents, on how they would raise their children. And the middle children themselves, Lorin Joy and Ricky are both middle children but despite of that they have overcome the Middle Child Syndrome, they become responsible adult and most of all they didn’t allowed their painful experiences affect the way they should behave towards their family.

Sometimes, questions like why mom and dad didn’t made the effort for me to have graduation pictures during my high school? (for souvenir :-) ). Or, why was I the one who should always do the household chores before? But nevertheless these questions are now source of funny stories rather than a cause of sadness.

And that makes me even more proud to be a friend of these two wonderful persons.

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Characteristics of Children According To Birth Order

Sunday, April 27th, 2008

This information is interesting to know especially when it concerns the behavior of children in a family.

According to some researches, where a child places in the birth order can have an effect on how he sees himself. Research on birth order, sometimes referred to as ordinal position, shows that first born children are more likely to go to college than children in any other position in the family. These apply to “typical families” and probably do not apply to “dysfunction families” and may vary across various cultures. Parents should attempt to help each child to see themselves as unique individuals and avoid comparisons with siblings or others.

The middle child often seems to have the most negative impressions of his lot in life. One approach to help middle children reframe things is to point out that in a sense they have the best of both worlds. They are the youngest to the older sibling and the oldest to the younger sibling. Therefore they are both a big brother/sister and a little brother/sister. Younger children always want to be able to do the things older siblings are allowed to do. And older siblings may feel that the younger siblings get away with things they were not able to when they were the same age.

The following characteristics will not apply to all children in every family. Typical characteristics, however, can be identified.

TYPICAL CHARACTERISTICS

Only Child

•Pampered and spoiled.
•Feels incompetent because adults are more   capable.
•Is center of attention; often enjoys position. May feel special.
•Self-centered.
• Relies on service from others rather than own efforts
• Feels unfairly treated when doesn’t get own way.
• May refuse to cooperate.
• Plays “divide and conquer” to get own way.

First Child

• Is only child for period of time; used to being center
of attention.
• Believes must gain and hold superiority over other children.
• Being right, controlling often important.
• May respond to birth of second child by feeling unloved and neglected.
• Strives to keep or regain parents’ attention through conformity. If this failed, chooses to misbehave.
• May develop competent, responsible behavior or become very discouraged.
• Sometime strives to protect and help others.
• Strives to please.

Second Child

• Never has parents’ undivided attention.
• Always has sibling ahead who’s more advanced.
• Acts as if in race, trying to catch up or overtake first child. If first child is “good,” second may become “bad.” Develops abilities first child doesn’t exhibit. If first child successful, may feel uncertain of self and abilities.
• May be rebel.
• Often doesn’t like position.
• Feels “squeezed” if third child is born.
• May push down other siblings.

Middle Child of Three

• Has neither rights of oldest nor privileges of youngest.
• Feels life is unfair.
• Feels unloved, left out, “squeezed.”
• Feels doesn’t have place in family.
• Becomes discouraged and “problem child” or elevates self by pushing down other siblings.
• Is adaptable.
• Learns to deal with both oldest and youngest sibling.

Youngest Child

• Behaves like only child.
• Feels every one bigger and more capable.
• Expects others to do things, make decisions, take responsibility.
• Feels smallest and weakest. May not be taken seriously.
• Becomes boss of family in getting service and own way.
• Develops feelings of inferiority or becomes “speeder” and overtakes older siblings.
• Remains “The Baby.” Places others in service.

If youngest of three, often allies with oldest child against middle child.

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Stories of Middle Children

Middle Child Syndrome

Middle Child Syndrome

Sunday, April 27th, 2008

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According to researches, the middle or second born child or children often have the sense of not belonging.

They fight to receive attention from parents and others because they feel many times they are being ignored or dubbed off as being the same as another sibling.


Being in the middle, a child can feel insecure. The middle child often lacks drive and looks for direction from the first born child. Sometimes a middle child feels out of place because they are not over achievers and like to go with the flow of things.
Being a middle child would mean they are loners. They really don’t like to latch on to a person in a relationship, therefore they have trouble keeping one due to lack of interest.
Not liking to take the limelight for anything, they are not over achievers and just simply work enough work to get by, and typically that goes with school as well as a career.
They are however very artistic and creative. If forced to use abilities they will work well, but do not work well under pressure. They often start several projects but rarely keep focused long enough to finish a project.
The best career move for a middle child would be along the lines of using their creative. Going into a writing or journalism career, and into a career that they could freely express themselves would be good. Anything that would have hours that are flexible, and projects that frequently changed would be good for a middle born child.
Since relationships are not of high importance to a middle child, often times they are alone. However, the best possible match for a middle child would be a last born.
   Some middle children also say that:

  • The middle child feels left out b/c the oldest one is special b/c they are the oldest and get to do things first and have more responsibilities and the baby is special b/c they are the youngest and can get away w/ more so the middle child doesn’t feel as important.

 

  • generally the middle child in a family is often over looked, not intentionally but it does happen, and this can leave an effect on the child such as jealously of younger or older siblings

 

  • Personally I am a middle child in our family… ang take ko naman dito is madalas ang favorite kasi yung panganay o yung bunso…di ka pwede sumagot o sumuway sa ate mo, nagagalit din pag inuutusan o pinapagalitan mo yung bunso… and i can say its the most difficult place to be and you have to live the rest of your life like this…

You may also want to read:

Stories of Middle Children

Characteristics of Children

Dear Abby and Dear Margo

Sunday, April 27th, 2008

Dear Abby and Dear Margo are very popular sites in Yahoo, the format is to give their valued opinions/advise on any kind of topic that are being sent to them via e-mail, they have huge supporters in the internet especially in the United States of America. E-mail senders from all ages, and all walks of life are writing to them and are reading their column as well. Below are some excerpts taken from Abby’s column..

 

DEAR ABBY: One day my dad was talking to one of my friends, and he said, “We’re poor.” Abby, we live in a nice house in a middle-class neighborhood. Both my parents have their master’s degrees, and I never have to worry about having something to eat or if I can afford to pay for my college education. My parents always make comments about how much things cost and how much they can’t buy. I’m sorry, but it’s just a little bit irksome. I feel like their obsession with money is putting a crimp on enjoying the good things in life. Why can’t they be a little more “cup is half-full”? — LINDSAY IN NORTHERN CALIFORNIADEAR LINDSAY: Your father may have gotten some bad news about his investments the day he spoke to your friend — as many people have over the past year — or perhaps he suspected that she was palling around with you because she thought you had money. Ask your dad why he said what he did, because the answer could be enlightening. It would have been helpful if you had mentioned what preceded your father’s comment. That would have put it in context.

Most of the time, their opinions are just so brilliant, you can’t help but admire them for the way they would advise their e-mail senders on how to face their dilemmas. (but sometimes, you’ll also wonder if they themselves are practicing what they are saying, coz if they do, then probably they are living one perfect life in this world J).

  

            There would also be some instances when, readers would disagree with their opinions. And that would mean huge discussion ending up with them either admitting their mistakes or standing up their ground.

 

            Topics are always interesting to read, you get to realize how people from different culture would react on certain situations in life. But after days and days of reading their column, I realized that for us Filipinos who are known to be brought up by Catholic teachings and one of our famous traits is being Family Oriented, some opinions and advice would never suit our beliefs and culture. We have this unique way of giving value to our family, we value the sacrament of marriage, our patience is just surreal … and most of all we have this support system among our family and friends and community that is distinctively Filipino. Sometimes too much independence creates anonymity among people.

 

I am not saying that Americans ways and ideals are not good nor they have less love for their family, what I just want to emphasize is for us to value what we Filipinos have among our community.